By Sharon Emephia
A “kitchen cabinet” is a concept in leadership and political circles, which simply put, means close, unofficial advisers to a leader.
Building a political kitchen cabinet, an inner circle of trusted advisors requires selecting individuals who offer a mix of strategic wisdom, unwavering loyalty, and diverse perspectives. According to political analysts and historical examples, the goal is to create a sounding board that tells you what you need to hear, not just what you want to hear.

Some Key traits to look out for in members of your political kitchen cabinet include:
- Absolute Trustworthiness and Integrity
Highest Ethical Standard: You need people with integrity who are committed to the success of your administration, not just self-gain.
2) Loyalty: Members of your kitchen cabinet must have your best interests at heart, always acting on behalf of the administration of their principal, without any private agenda.
3) Confidentiality: The ability to keep secrets is vital in a group that often deals with highly sensitive, early-stage, or controversial decisions.
- Intellectual Honesty and Courage (The “Devil’s Advocate”) Every leader needs members of a kitchen cabinet that are willing to Challenge Groupthink. You need advisors who are not afraid to argue against you and challenge your point of view, (though privately), preventing your team from operating in a bubble.
5) Truth-Telling: Members of your kitchen cabinet must be willing to give you unvarnished feedback and highlight flaws in your strategies, when necessary.
6) Balanced Thinking: When setting up a Kitchen cabinet, look for rational, moderate, and analytical thinkers who can see the big picture and the potential consequences of decisions.
7). Competence, Diverse Expertise and
Specialized Knowledge:
Include people with deep expertise in areas you may lack, such as economic policy, data analytics, legal affairs, or communications as members of your kitchen cabinet.
They should also be willing to adapt to new technology and not solely stick to old methods.
8) Outsider Perspective: Members of your kitchen cabinet should be persons who can provide fresh, “outside-the-box” thinking, free from traditional biases.
- Pragmatism and Emotional Fortitude
Pragmatism and Consensus-Building: Members of your kitchen should be willing to compromise to achieve the greater good, rather than letting the perfect be the enemy of the good.
10) Mental Toughness: The ability to handle high-stress situations and provide “moral support” is a crucial consideration in choosing a member of your kitchen cabinet, who help to ensure you remain focused under intense pressure.
11) Patience and Empathy: Members of your kitchen cabinet should be able to listen to various sides and understand the broader impact of policies on constituents.
- Tactical and Local Awareness
Local and Grassroots Touch: “All politics is local,” so when constituting your kitchen cabinet, you need individuals who command respect and have their finger on the pulse of the community.
People who can analyze data, understand voter demographics, and craft a compelling messages to woo and win your constituents.
The following category of People should be avoided when setting up your kitchen cabinet as a leader:
The Monopolizer: These are people who always needs to be right and dominates conversations.
The Collector: Individuals who only want to be on board, just to boost their own status or for the story.
The Sycophant: Those who only agree with you to gain access or power.
A diverse, strong kitchen cabinet helps you manage the isolation of leadership, providing a safe, confidential environment to test ideas before they go public.
Building a “kitchen cabinet,” is no easy feat, but if you get it right, the benefits are enormous.
I challenge you to consider who is in your kitchen cabinet. If you identify a missing piece, make this the year you surround yourself with people who make you the best you can be.